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SailingWelcome to Headeasy's Blog 1月21日 Football Mania 这个周末没有回上海,今天和同事小唐还有他的哥们一起去踢球。在此之前,已经好久没有碰过足球了,毕业后,踢球已成为很奢侈的一件事,不是没有时间,只是很难在身边找到趣味相投的球友了。
踢完球已是晚饭时间,大家便去了附近的一家餐馆。席间了解到,饭桌前的这一圈人,绝大部分都是同一所外地高校毕业的校友,但是不同的是,他们来自于不同的院系或年级。在异乡,是足球把他们拉到了一起。饭桌上,他们聊天的话题始终是为围绕着足球进行的,举杯之间当年的足球故事仿佛历历在目。很羡慕他们的大学时代充满了足球元素。同时也被他们在毕业若干年之后依旧对足球所保持的这份执着的热情所感动,因为他们每个人的心中都包含了对下一场不知何时会进行的球赛的渴望。
这么多年过去了,能再次遇到一群足球爱好者,很难得。 12月25日 Xmas 06 回来的路上,收音机响起熟悉的旋律,那是Wet Wet Wet的《Love Is All Around》。很自然地联想到了《Love Actually》里的那首调皮的主题曲《Christmas Is All Around》,在12月的25号能有机会想到这首歌,可以算是一种巧合了。巧合,yep,like it!
今天的大雾已经嚣张了整整一天了,可惜那遮天盖地的白色东西不是雪花,不然的话该有多美啊。
虽说圣诞节是西方的节日,做为龙的传人如果为之兴师动众多少有些崇洋媚外;虽然自己也曾在Messenger的签名里引用本山在小品《卖拐》里的台词“还要什么自行车呀”来表示自己淡泊圣诞节的决心。但是心还是不禁跳动出一丝圣诞的节拍。不知今天是不是许愿的好季节,就许下一个祝愿吧。你能看到吗?祝你快快康复。 11月25日 GET INTO ACTIONby Joel Garfinkle, Dream Job Coaching
Have you wondered what separates you from those who are successful in life? We all have different talents and experiences that contribute to the portrait of who we are. Beyond talent, however, the primary key that separates the successful from those who have not yet achieved their dreams is the willingness to take action. If you dream about being a world famous author but never touch a keyboard or put pen to paper, it will never happen. That long distance vision of being a published author is only a starting point; you must then backtrack and create the steps that will get you there. This is true regardless what your dream may be. You must develop an image in your mind of your dream goal and then look at the steps you can build to get there. Successful people understand the power of action. They examine what they need to do, plan a series of logical steps to get there, take action and stay in action until they reach their dream. What does this mean to you? First, you must be willing to act. Once you are willing, bring this willingness into movement by doing something. Develop an outline starting with where you are now and what your dream goal is. Plug in all the steps it would take to get there that you can imagine, in the order you think they need to be. For the person who wants to be a published writer, a step outline might look something like this: I. Form an idea for a book. Develop characters and plot idea. Do research, contact resources. Set aside time to write each day. Write at least one page a day. II. Finish rough draft of first chapter. Continue writing. III. Finish first draft. Revise, edit and rewrite. IV. Polish and finish final draft. Find agent or editor who is interested in publishing. V. See book published. Having concrete steps you can see and take action on will create a wave of energy within you, empowering you forward to success. Like a small movement of the earth deep beneath the sea that ripples the water gently at first until it results in a giant wave cascading on the beach, a small action on your part can show similar movement within a relatively short time. Remember, momentum generates energy. Energy cultivates action. And action, over time, will always produce results. So why aren't more people successful? Fear. Like a deer mesmerized by oncoming headlights, it stands still, afraid that any movement will be wrong when, in reality, motion is the only thing that can save it. Similarly, most people stay in a place they don't particularly like doing work that does not challenge or inspire them simply because they don't know what they want and are afraid to take action and make movement in their life. They are scared of change and what might happen if they take the wrong action. Realize that you are standing in the headlights of life and the only wrong action is to take no action at all. In the end, any action you take will generate energy and take you from a place of stillness into movement. Action will give you information, insight and wisdom to build your future upon. So set that goal, create a series of steps that get gradually more and more specific until finally you have a single step you can do now, today, right at this moment. Now, make a leap of faith and begin. Once you do, you will allow the universe to support you in ways you never knew existed because you are making a statement to the world that you are ready (unconsciously) and it will respond favorably by offering you opportunities and gifts for you to respond to. You will begin to generate a wave of energy that won't be stopped. Taking action on a daily basis will create new habits and build energy to face the barriers that occur in any journey. You'll develop new resources and recognize new ways around those barriers to achieve your heart's desire. Realize that your resistance is a normal subconscious effort to keep you safe. Does this mean you must quit your current job and take a leap of faith into the unknown void without a security net? No. You can take action toward your dream while still working your current job. But you must use any free time available to build the life you want. This is how countless others achieved their dreams. Harrison Ford, a successful actor with many film credits to his name, worked as a carpenter for years while trying out for film roles. Carpentry paid the bills until his dreams as an actor came to fruition. Tom Clancy, a best-selling author of techno-thrillers such as The Hunt for Red October & Patriot Games toiled away as an insurance salesman who wrote his first novel during his free time. It was rejected by 22 publishers before a small publisher that previously handled only technical military materials took a chance and published their first work of fiction. When you take action, recognize that every rejection simply puts you one step closer to success. A rejection means you have eliminated one more avenue that didn't recognize or need your services. This allows you to now be more closely focused on the remaining list of those who will want your skills. You will see results from your actions by staying committed to your goal. Commitment plus action eventually achieves results. Begin a thirty-day small-action step today. Commit to it fully and see the benefits. The ultimate goal is to act on your passions to achieve your dreams. And your day-to-day goals will be easy to achieve once you recognize that fear has only as much power over you as you allow it. Les Brown said, "You don't have to be great to get started, but you have to get started to be great." 10月31日 变化每个人恐怕都感觉不出自己每一天身体的长大或衰老,但是和一年,两年,五年,十年前的自己比一比,差别就出来了。
几个月没回学校,现在我第一次称之为母校,回去后觉得和自己印象中的不一样了。
从06年1月1日到现在,一共踢球不超过五次,现在感觉下肢很僵硬。 8月9日 Class Reunion 记得02年暑假里的一天,高中里的一帮弟兄痛痛快快的玩了一天。一早先在上海影城看了优惠场的电影《蜘蛛侠》,之后去到淮海路上的好仑哥吃午饭,饭毕又去了好乐迪唱卡拉OK,到了吃晚饭时间,连饭也来不及吃便疯狂地往八万人体育场赶,因为之前我们已经买好了中国国青队对阵日本国青队的比赛门票。非常充实的一天呐。
这个周六在大头的号召下,我们老同学又要相聚啦,好久没见到了,期待。 7月5日 ITA 2:0 GER解说门事件后,媒体批评央视安排的前方解说员人少活多,所以才把黄健翔累得发毛腔。今天1/4决赛的转播发生了可喜的变化,张路张指导来到了多特蒙德,和刘建宏搭档解说。表扬央视发现问题及时改正的态度。托张路张指导的福,“伟大的意大利”战胜东道主德国,顺利挺进决赛。 6月27日 转贴:面对空门……各国球员的表现(关于足球的经典)在网上看到一篇很搞笑的足球文章,经典,忍不住要贴过来。虽然有些内容看不懂,但是大部分还是充分领会了。笑得不行了。
面对空门……各国球员的表现(关于足球的经典)
如果冷静的推射入网, 那他是德甲球员; 如果发力抽射, 那他是英超球员; 如果在对方后卫的干扰下侧身凌空抽射入网, 那他是意甲球员; 如果选择死角射入球门,那他是西甲球员; 如果一个黑人继续表演着他的踮球过人然后一脚射门射空,那他是法甲球员; 如果转身把球挑起来然后倒勾,那他是里瓦尔多; 如果还发力并且射不进去,那么是主场对摩纳哥的切尔西队员; 如果没射进去并独自一人顺势倒下并判对方后卫犯规吹了点球,那他是世界杯上的韩国队员; 如果前锋位置不利,没有任何射门角度时被对方后卫绊倒,那后卫肯定是格雷斯科; 如果还不想射门想把对方后卫过一干净,那对手是中国队; 如果对方后卫过来把球抢下并带球轰入自家球门,那这是老虎杯比赛; 如果一脚踢上看台,那是李铁; 如果比李铁踢的还高,那是周宁; 如果比周宁踢的还高,那是李东波; 如果比李东波踢的还高,那是发射爱国者呢。 进球之后跑到场边庆祝,一堵墙塌下来把他砸伤,这人是帕勒莫 如果进球后做出农民式的伸右手庆祝方式, 那一定是希勒. 如果进球后从内裤里拿出头套准备假装蜘蛛人, 那是马克斯. 如果突然不踢了, 突然把衣服脱光, 跑向裁判出示红牌, 那他是那个裸奔之王 如果球是向角旗方向飞去,在¼烛香后球又自己飞回球门的那是卡螺丝…… 如果是斜里冲过一个肩膀比头还高的人一脚大力抽射,球贴地地滚向角旗。该球员耸耸肩骂句戳比,那他是范志毅。 如果他不射门,还继续带球,并且把球带出了底线,自己又摔倒了,那他是李毅! 如果被对方后卫踢倒了,判罚了点球,这时候该前锋后退20米助跑,突然一个鱼跃在草皮滑行10米然后用头把点球顶进去了,那他是比埃霍夫 如果球被对方后卫合理的铲掉了,而该前锋躺在地上抱着腿痛苦的打滚,而发现裁判不予理睬后,站起来拍拍土又跑了,那他是姚夏 如果该前锋突然一个启动加速,却不小心踩住了皮球,往前一滑,一个劈叉,大腿拉伤,那他是张玉宁 如果一个蜻蜓点水越过龙门、踩着看台上一溜脑袋,拎出十三姨的辫子回家的,那是黄飞鸿 如果他带球过完所有的对方的后卫,面对空门,突然大喊:“不射,不射,老子就是不射,45分钟不射!“这是伟哥广告 如果把球停在球门线上,然后用头顶进去,那他就是宿茂臻 如果把球停在禁区线上,然后大力抽射进去,把球网都打破了,那他就是巴第思图塔. 如果把球停在中线上,然后吊射进去,那他就是贝壳汉母. 如果把球放在自己一方的球门线上,然后一口气把球吹进对方球门,那么他就是——阎世铎!!! 如果正要射门,突然后卫喝到:“不许射!”“为什么”“哼哼哈兮,我的地盘听我的”,那后卫是周杰伦。 如果两腿在球上交叉晃动18圈做骑自行车状,结果球碰到门柱,那这名球员是德尼尔森。 如果进球后,你听见解说员在说进球球员的女友及家人,另外一个声音在说没错,那才是黄和张路在解说。 如果好不容易射进个球,长出一口气说:“这球门还挺紧的”,是老赵 如果他带球突破把球射入对方球门之后回头找鞋,那人是鲁尼 如果进球后听到电视里传出“哎呀”,那是段喧在解说。 如果说进球的球的人是裁判,那是韩老师在发表语录。 如果进球后听到有人喋喋不休介绍该球员拖着伤腿打着封闭,一定是刘见红在煽情。 如果进球后听到两个人在淫笑,那是健祥和张路在看意甲。 如果没有碰他就自己倒了,他是因扎基 如果有人随便碰他就倒了,他是托马森 如果有人重重撞了他一下,他倒了,他是欧文 如果有人重重撞了他一下,他看似要倒,但还没有倒,他就是马拉多纳 如果有人重重撞了他一下,他纹丝不动,他就是维埃里 如果有人重重撞了他一下,他纹丝不动,搞他的人倒是先倒了,他是巴蒂 如果这时裁判防守队员犯规并罚点球,这是中超 如果这时裁判示意比赛继续,这是英超 如果这时裁判吹进攻队员犯规,这是意甲 如果这时裁判吹进攻队员犯规,并出示黄牌,这是西甲 6月24日 毕业心情5月31日星期三下午,论文答辩。
6月7日星期三上午,毕业合影留念。
6月7日星期三晚间,散伙饭。
6月21日星期三下午,毕业典礼。
6月21日星期三下午,办理离校手续。
6月22日星期四下午,退宿。 6月22日星期四下午,拿到了大学毕业证书。
谨以此歌献给刚结束的大学生活。
祝教信系02级全体本科毕业生一路走好。
那片笑声让我想起我的那些花儿 在我生命每个角落静静为我开着 我曾以为我会永远守在他身旁 今天我们已经离去在人海茫茫 他们都老了吧? 他们在哪里呀? 我们就这样各自奔天涯 啦……想她. 啦…她还在开吗? 啦……去呀! 她们已经被风吹走散落在天涯 有些故事还没讲完那就算了吧 那些心情在岁月中已经难辨真假 如今这里荒草丛生没有了鲜花 好在曾经拥有你们的春秋和冬夏 啦……想她 啦…她还在开吗? 啦……去呀! 她们已经被风吹走散落在天涯 他们都老了吧? 他们在哪里呀? 我们就这样各自奔天涯 where have all the flowers gone? where the flowers gone? where have all the young girls gone? where did they all gone? where have all the young men gone? where the soldiers gone? where have all the graveyards gone? where have all they gone? 6月23日 Graduation QuotesGraduation is only a concept. In real life every day you graduate. Graduation is a process that goes on until the last day of your life. If you can grasp that, you'll make a difference. ~Arie Pencovici
When you leave here, don't forget why you came. ~Adlai Stevenson, to college graduates
Your schooling may be over, but remember that your education still continues. ~Author Unknown
It takes most men five years to recover from a college education, and to learn that poetry is as vital to thinking as knowledge. ~Brooks Atkinson, Once Around the Sun, 1951
It is indeed ironic that we spend our school days yearning to graduate and our remaining days waxing nostalgic about our school days. ~Isabel Waxman 6月20日 老叶寄语 明天参加毕业典礼,还差一天就要对大学say bye bye了。
今天午后在网络上遇到叶老师,叶老师是带我论文的指导老师,我们几个由他带领的学生亲切地称他为老叶。老叶为人和气,讲课也有水平,所以在同学中口碑很好,我们很喜欢听他的课。当初抢着去选他坐我的论文指导老师也正是冲着对他的认可。
因为感到我的论文“比较粗糙”,“有点粗枝大叶”,老叶对我说:“以后工作了,要学着有条理地工作,事先在纸上列个提纲。做事要有一定的高度,不要一头扎下去。在团队里发言,如果没有想好两点以上的,不要发言。”很感谢老叶给我的忠告,老叶说的对。老师就是老师啊!
即将告别大学,在此祝老叶事业常青。 6月9日 营救小猫昨天晚上,外面飘来一阵小动物的叫声,出于好奇心出去看了下,原来是只小猫,孤独的蹲着,在黑夜中。动了心,带它回家,父母反对,我也养不来,急忙在网上寻求帮助。教信群的同学们出了很多主意。在他们的建议下,买了奶粉和针筒(希望药店卖针筒给我的老头没有误会我),准备喂它。可惜小猫不太配合,喂它也不爱吃。时间一分一秒的过去,急阿。这时松果7在网上帮忙联系了一位流浪猫救助者,抱着试一试的心态打去了电话,对方表示家里最近猫很多,但最终还是答应了接收小猫。连夜带着小猫上路,在好心人家门口的便利店接头。她请我去她家看看小猫。走着走着,突然发现,原来我们以前认识啊。真是无巧不成书啊,年初我去他们公司实习,一个办公司的同事。到了她家,好多猫,参观了一下,安心回家了。
6月1日 答辩日 今天下午一点开始答辩,四个半小时之后,本组的13人全部答辩结束。每个人获得的讲演时间很短,被严格得有些不近人情地限制在10分钟内。与一路走过的论文岁月相比,这600秒真像一瞬间的事。有些小遗憾,在演示时机器出了个问题。没能让在座的师生看到自己大学里最后的表演。总结一下,觉得写论文时命题范围小点好,不要追求广而全,最好能在一小方面做足功夫。
答辩结束,大学时间接近尾声。
截稿时才发现,论文答辩已经是昨天的事了。因为晚上寝室成员唱歌去所以没能在当天发出这篇稿件。呵呵,借用了新闻界的术语。 5月22日 Down by the Salley GardensDown by the salley gardens
My love and i did meet. She passed the salley gardens With little snow white feet. She bid me take life easy As the leaves grow on the trees. But i being young and foolish, With her did not agree. In a field by the river My love and i did stand. And on my healing shoulder She laid her snow white hand. She bid me take love easy As the grass grows on the weeds. But i was young and foolish And now i'm full of tears. Down by the salley gardens My love and i did meet. She passed the salley gardens With little snow white feet. She bid me take love easy As the leaves grow on the trees, But i was young and foolish And with her did not agree. 第一次听到的是这首歌的风笛演奏版,感动于英伦风笛的委婉悠扬。
这次听到了藤田惠美的演唱版,又一次的被歌声感动了。 4月18日 RSS 昨天无法正常登陆SPACE,猜想MSN可能有新动作。刚才看了下SPACE自定义模块,发现了一个新功能:RSS。不知和昨天的连接不正常是否真有联系。虽然我对RSS到底是什么不太了解,但是好像还挺好玩的样子。刚才给SPACE加了个RSS模块,找了个feed贴进来,效果还不错。不敢想象贴满feed的SPACE会变成什么样子。 3月27日 公车司机 坐公车回家,前方一辆准备小转弯的出租车挡住了公车直行的路线,公车寸步难行,急煞啊……眼看就要跳红灯了,出租车终于往边上挪开了,公车从出租车旁经过时,只见公车司机潇洒地打开前车门,对着出租车司机骂道:“侬措桑!”。公车司机有时还是很可爱的。 3月24日 生日@大学 昨天从虽可的SPACE上了解到昨天是他生日,晚上赶去学校,大家在校后门的泰禾亭一起吃了顿饭。由于是自助,大家吃了比较多,台湾老板好像有点不欢迎我们了,虽然他问候我们吃得好不好。
和好友一起过生日,真的是件很开心的事。想起自己刚进大学后的第一个生日,那天早上第一节课,当我坐在文附111教室等待迪卡尼奥开始上课时,却不见王8和Harebert。这时,他们提着个大蛋糕走进了教室,开始很惊讶,接着就明白了,很开心,很感动。原来王8他们在前一天去面包房给我订了一个大蛋糕,第二天又起了个大早,悄悄的去面包房拿来蛋糕。下课后我们在河东食堂借了厨师的菜刀切蛋糕。
还有一次是王8生日,我们在519寝室一起庆祝,那次特别HIGH,我们每个人都没有逃过奶油的袭击。王8和我最惨,不仅脸上涂满了奶油,连身体上也被涂得不成样子。我们还不怀好意的骗来514寝室的同学,吓得他们挤着躲进了蚊帐。那次收场时,地上、桌子上、椅子上……到处都是奶油的痕迹。以致此后的好几天地上都是滑滑的。 |
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